How long should you wait before texting a girl?
Some say right away some say three days some say a week some say 9 days.
I think later at some point that day e.g if you got her number in the morning then text her in the evening..
what do you think?
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Do it when it feels natural : )
When I was single, if a guy got my number and waited more than three days to text me; I'd think he wasn't all that interested. Now, maybe that's just me and because through my dating experience that's what I learned. I don't think it makes a guy look desperate or anything negative; I think it's a bold, subliminal way of saying "I'm interested." I remember one guy that I met at a blue party for a DJ. *Everything was blue: blue lights, blue balloons, blue party favors, blue seats, everyone wore blue.* We had one dance and for the rest of the night, we couldn't stay away from each other. At some point, he got my number. I ended up having to leave because my ride was leaving. He texted me within an hour after I left and that gave me the biggest grin lol It was something along the lines of "Thanks for showing me a good time tonight! Get home safely" or something like that; very brief yet with a warm tone. Then he texted me the next morning; I can't remember what he said but I know it left a good, fuzzy feeling lol. Anyway, that was a positive thing because it kept the connection fresh. Sometimes if you meet someone somewhere and wait too long, that initial connection may get stale. But if you do it earlier, it reinforces how attracted you are to that person's energy and personality.
So yeah, I agree with you! No waiting games: it's silly and it could backfire if the girl has options. Especially for many females who are self-concious and insecure or may not get approached very often; they may think that you just wanted their number just for the sake of proving to yourself you could get a girl's number but you're don't really have a genuine interest.0