I've been dating a guy for 3 months now, and didn't know until the other day that he actually had a Facebook. I searched for him when we first started dating and couldn't find him, so I assumed he didn't have a fb page. every time I talked about fb, he never said he had one, so I assumed he didn't. Anyways, I found out yesterday that he does have one. I find it weird that he hasn't added me, or said anything about it before now. I don't know what I should do. Any suggestions? Thanks!
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Stop assuming and ask him about it. This is the advice I'm always getting, and as hard as it is to follow sometimes, the truth is its the best course of action. I recently just had a fight with my boyfriend because I was assuming and not communicating. Also, I didn't add my boyfriend to Facebook until we had been dating for four months. Eventually he got insecure with me about it, and had been waiting for me to do so he might be the same way, or have a number of valid reasons not to (that are in no way a reflection of your relationship). Just ask him about it. Or ask him what he thinks of couples on fb (to get the topic going), or non intrusively ask, "is it okay if I add you/the relationship to Facebook?" Again, I highly doubt it means anything or should be a cause to worry. Find out so you can stop worrying.0