I've been out with this guys a few times, quite like him actually but according to himself he smokes "a couple of joints a week"
I think that's an awfull lot and I'm not sure it should bother me. In general it's not the smoking weed that bothers but what comes with it, like being irresponsible, slacking in school, sliding into harder drugs...
But he doesn't do anything like that. He's studying chem/bio, graduating next spring and is applying for med schools. He says he has been doing it for years and obviously not slipped into any addictions.
I don't know, usually I'd say good by if someone does drugs, but now I'm not sure. Is it so much different to drinking really?
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not everyone who smokes is a slacker, irresponsible, etc. some are some are not. like everything, in moderation weed isn't necessarily a bad thing.
i'd date him but I also don't have the negative bias you have appear to have. In your position you have to be open to the idea that like drinking alcohol or coffee or anything else marijuana in moderation can be OK IF you can't be open to that idea then dating him will present a problem as you will always be disappointed when he does smoke.
me personally would prefer a smoker to a drinker as long as they seemed to keep it together.0