I have a question for guys " when you have feelings for a girl and you miss her, what holds you back from telling her?"
There's this guy we're friends well we were "Not Really Sure"
We were like BFFS last semester but he treated me like a guy friend and not like a girl he was interested in.
He does things that clearly show me he has feelings and misses me but verbally he's just not there and a lot of the things he's doing is really starting to make me angry
I've caught him stalking me "following me around in his car trying to see where I'm going"
I've caught him watching me "if he sees me from a distance, he'll usually just stop and stare and I'll just pretend like I don't see him"
Heard his guy friends talking about me, a few have even stopped and said hi or waved " again I pretend like I don't know what's going on, plug in my headphones and look the other way"
Nothing personal but I feel really uncomfortable around them especially when they know things about me meanwhile I don't even know their names
He even made a fake Facebook profile and added me, I sent it a message with pretty much our whole scenario and told him I wouldn't judge if he admitted to it
"didn't add his name in the message either just a random scenario"
" needless to say That Facebook profile no longer existed after hat message was read, I must've struck a nerve"
A few days ago I texted him asking him if he was free to talk "I got an instant reply"
I almost told him that I missed him and that I loved him but then I got angry thinking about how ridiculous this whole situation has gotten and thought " If he really missed me he'd pick up the phone just like I did, he clearly hasn't lost my number"
So instead of telling him I replied 3 hours later and told him to forget it, I didn't want to talk anymore because I couldn't say anything without it sounding awkward
I don't understand why he won't just talk to me upfront instead of stalking,spying and snooping
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He may just be SOP sociallyu awkward that he doesn't know how to approach you. I was a little like this as a teen. I assume you aren't really 18...
Or, he might fear rejection, if you are getting at lot of attention from guys, have been in a relationship, or might be in a relationship..!
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