I caught up with an old male friend from school on Facebook when he started posting about dramas with his kids and ex girlfriend. We got talking, then we started looking for places to live together in a flatting situation (He's hardly ever around, travels a lot with his job so would mainly be my daughter and I in the house).
Last night we were texting about houses, I was sending him links to ones I'd found etc, then he said night and was going to bed (He has a girlfriend, I have a bf).
The next morning, I got all these strange messages from him, one saying I couldn't move in with him anymore. I started getting calls from him, but when I answered he didn't say anything.
I asked him why and his reply was " you being around is ruining my relationship with my girlfriend, she means more to me than you do and we can't talk anymore" I said OK, I really felt like I'd missed half the conversation but couldn't really talk cos I was at work.
He then said I'd been flirting with him and I decided to just mark his number as spam, remove off Facebook etc. Before I did I apologized if I'd given the wrong impression and wished him luck for the future. There were multiple texts in my spam folder saying 'dont text me anymore' etc etc
I've been racking my brains trying to figure out how he could go from being perfectly fine one day then turning completely different the next, I've never said anything inappropriate to him - I'd be more than happy for my boyfriend to read our conversations we've had to try and shed some light (i've deleted them though because it made me mad seeing these texts)
Can anyone who's had this happen before give me some insight into why this has happened?
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Almost certainly, his girlfriend looked through his messages and found many of yours, and really got angry with him, so he had no choice but to cut off contact with you.
Especially when she found you chatting about getting a place together! She made her own interpretation of that, and you can't totally blame her, can you?1