To make it brief I dated this man for 6 months, it wasn't going anywhere so I cut it off, he came back, texted me more and put more effort in, he asked if we could give it a shot, I said yes. He then went away for the weekend, didn't hear from him, saw him when he got back, and then again nothing for days, total turn around. I texted and said his hot and cold behavior was giving me whiplash and it was too hard to keep up to, after receiving no reply all day (his phone is glued to his hand), I texted and said not to bother with it anymore, I was tired of him blowing hot and cold. So the next day I feel totally bad for blowing up and apologized for overreacting. Still nothing. I feel like a moron for behaving that way but at the same time feels kind if justified as this hot cold has gone on for so long. Don't care if I don't hear back. Just wanna know if I handled the situation poorly?
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You had a legitimate gripe and were justified to bring it to his attention, but you handled the situation poorly. His poor behavior does not excuse yours. You always have to and always should behave like an adult. Chalk it up as a lesson learned and try to comport yourself better if you ever face a similar situation.0