I found escorts numbers on my boyfriends text history. He says he has never texted them, but yes has been on the site. It's not the site that bothers me... It's the fact there are text messages! He said his phone must be "hacked." Am I right to see a red flag here? I am head over heals for this guy, but I also don't want to waste my time. Advise and help please.
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I think even being on the site should bother you.
Lets just say you saw the site alone.
Just the fact that he is looking at escorts in your area, should
be enough to alarm you.
Finding those womens number in his phone should be another red flag.
Him lying about it should be the third.
He doesn't want to be real with you and is trying to cover his tracks.
It wouldn't be far fetched if he actually is cheating on you.
I think you should end your relationship until he is willing to come clean to you,
or be completely honest about everything. (When he does, make your ultimate decision
You are "head over heels" with someone you think he is.
This is an illusion and you need to look at the situation you are facing
for what it is.
If he comes clean...it's only because he GOT CAUGHT.
How can you trust that in future, he will be honest with you instead of
you having to force things out of him.
Someone genuinely sorry will come forward on their own.