I'm seeing 2 guys right now. Only dating not exclusive. I've wasted too hurt time by putting all of my eggs in one basket. The first guy I've been out with a few times and we last saw each other three days ago. I haven't really heard from him since. The second guy has shown no interest in me so I cut him off a week ago. A few days ago he apologized and explained why he was acting weird before. He said he also wanted to try dating me again. But he hasn't asked to hang out and hang really contacted me first. What's up with this two guys?
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depending on how the dates went with the first guy, he might just not be attracted to you, you might not be his type. The second guy seems suspicious..might be trying to play you, have you had sex or done anything sexual? if so, he is probably trying to have sex with you and your just one of his girls, or if you haven't done anything sexual he might just b questioning if he likes you or not..he might be seeing another girl he rather show his interest in and spend time with...if you don't hear from him in a few days I would recommend calling or texting him and saying hey I might have some free time this week or weekend, wanna catch lunch? or dinner, what ever you wanna say. But it is very important to make it sound like you are very active and having things going on...It might be risky but you could even set plans and a day before those plans cancel them and say you have to do something "be creative make something up" and it will make him jealous and want to actually hangout with you. But be careful it can backfire, but the chances of backfiring are slim so you be the judge!0