I've never had a problem gaining friends who are women. Every where I go, women flock to me and love to be around me. I get compliments all the time about how good of a guy I am.
Even now, after having moved to a new state for college, I have tons of friends who are girls who seem to love being around me, can't stop talking about me, and always want me to be included in their plans.
This is great and all, but I'm single and am interested in actually dating a girl, not just being friends with 100's of them. the problem is I can never get any of these women to date me.
So I'm trying to figure out what piece of the puzzle I'm missing if I can get girls to like me, they just won't take that next step and date me. This leads me to believe its either lack of sexual attraction, or I posses some major red flag. I believe its the former since I don't have any major red flags like being a player or something.
Process of elimination has led me to my height since I'm a pretty short guy (5'4), and because I've actually had a one or 2 women say to me that they would date me if I was taller.
Do you think my reasoning is correct? Is it safe to say that if girls always want to be friends with me, but won't date me, that its likely lake of sexual attraction of some kind?
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let me put it straight here.. cause life is too short.
i think its a lack of sexual attraction. girls feel bad for you...they want to be your friend. bam
how to fix it? either start going out with these chicks or leave em. start hanging out with more guys and get yourself out there.
it may help to get a new hair cut/ clothing. don't get your mother to cut your hair. go to a place pay them some money and get it cut. For clothing try to be on trend but still in your comfort zone.
good luck my nigga2