I can't get a read on this girl so I was hoping you all could give me some insight. I've been seeing this girl for over a year now. We talk every day. She's always wanting to hang out with me. We kiss. We cuddle. We have sex on a fairly regular basis. We hang out almost every day and we have a lot of fun together. She's introduced me to her parents. We've gone and visited her grandparents numerous times. She bought me $200 worth of really nice clothes for my birthday. She says she loves me. She wants me to move in with her in February. One thing. She's technically not my girlfriend. I've tried to establish relationship status with this girl on more than one occasion and she just says "I'm not ready yet". Someone please give me some insight here if you can. It seems extremely bizarre to me.
Most Helpful Girl
sounds to me like she has committment issues. Be careful, if a girl doesn't want to be your girlfriend it means you're either verging into the "just sex" friendship or she's still going round and sleeping with other people. The best way to find out is just to talk to her. Explain how you feel and how much you want to be with her and find out why she isn't "ready yet" chances are it might just be something silly you can resolve or something big like she likes to sleep around either way you'll have your answer and avoid possible hurt in the future.
Hope it all goes well :)1