Please read, since I don't understand how this works... my boyfriend has dated a small variety of girls (some taller, shorter, blond, brunette, dark eyes, light eyes... etc.), but lately I can't help but to notice how into girls with darker hair he is. The girls he talks to, the girls he searches online, all very dark brunettes. Naturally my hair is medium to dark brunette but I always dye it a little lighter, sometimes auburn, sometimes with some highlighting.
Now I had a "type", when I was in middle school, but I grew out of that. Attractive is attractive to me. We've been dating for a few years so I don't understand... When we first met, he used to want to see me as a blond. But now this. Am I not doing it for him? Sorry if this is pathetic but I honestly thought people grew out of that crap... And now I just feel like I need to change myself and this hurts me.
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I'm not sure that he has a thing for dark-haired girls based on what you said. It may have been a coincidence that girls he's noticed that you happen to be aware of have dark hair. You can always mention this when you see him looking at brunettes online "I thought you had a thing for blondes?"
Would you be agreeable to letting your hair go darker again if that is in fact what he likes? If so, you could tell him, "I was thinking of dying my hair dark brown. What do you think?"0
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