So there is this guy who is my neighbor in college dorms. Since the beginning of the year he's been saying hi it was normal because we were neighbors. A week ago my good friend and I saw him at this event and we kind of chilled with him. He told her he wanted to make me his girlfriend. He had my number before and we texted a few times. This week he has been texting me a lot just asking what I'm doing what I'm up to. I've been trying to play hard to get. He's been nice to be around. He helped me carry my groceries to my room this one time. I like him. He keeps making jokes about me having a boyfriend and I usually play along. yesterday we were texting and then he stopped answering. Today he came over randomly for like 10 mins, we talked and before he left he told me to hit him up. I wasn't going to because I thought he would make the move. When I saw he didn't I texted him asking wussup. He didn't write back. What do I do? Should I mention it if I see him next time? Do I do the same thing next time he texts me? Help.
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"I've been trying to play hard to get." That's why he went cold. Men respond to a woman playing hard to get by losing interest. We'll start out by playing hard to get back hoping that will get her to drop her games, but it usually only causes her to respond by playing hard to get even more, which makes us say f*** it and move on. Next time, don't play games.2