I am mostly online to meet new friends in a new city I moved to since I am bored. Not looking to find a boyfriend.. Anyway.
I was talking to this guy online last night. I sent him two pictures and he said I was "hot." We chatted a little more then he gave me a his number. I texted him later on that night and he told me he was going to bed soon and that we should meet up for a jog. He is very into fitness. I am naturally thin, my mom was about 115lbs after her fifth kid so I'm not a fatty by any means.
Any way I said lets go for coffee first and get to know each other. He asked to see another pic. I sent him one, which was of my chest and above, same as the other pics. He said he didn't get it .. I said I sent it and he said OK, good night. I said are you sure? I sent it and I'm looking right at it and he said he didn't get it. I sent another one and he said "ok. Thanks :) Night!"
I wasn't sure if that was a good reaction or not. I asked him if he that was a good reaction or not and that I was confused. He said 'I'm sleeping.lol' I said but did you get it?
and he said yes hun. I'm tired!
I am really confused and a little hurt. I am very attractive and look the exact same as the other pictures. Every guy I have met online has told me I look better in person than in my pics. That pic was the same as the others, as in it was a selfie. I am in no way ugly, and this guy was not perfect, not even close. In fact I am way out of HIS league.
Was it a bad picture of me and he lost interest perhaps? I am really crushed about this and am obsessing over it. I'm so offending I want to write him a nasty text message but I know that is immature and won't solve anything. What do you think it could be?
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Personally, I don't like "dating" girls who are not looking for a relationship online. But if they want to meet, whatever, that's cool.
Now honestly, this guy sounds ridiculously into appearance when it comes to girls and I wouldn't meet him if I was you. If he keeps asking for a photo, it sounds like he didn't like the initial one and is looking to see if he can get a better angle or something else. It's silly really. I think he is one of those guys that wants a 10 in the appearance dept. and nothing less. Don't waste your time with him.
I honestly never reply to a girl online if I cannot make certain 100% that I would be willing to meet her based of the profile itself. So if appearance is an issue and I can't tell from the initial photos she put up online that I would want to meet her, I just don't reply. So this rules out all the phony girls online who strictly put up face only photos to hide their weight as I just assume they're overweight and skip over them.1