So I met this guy Danny on okCupid (he messaged me first) and we hit it off right away when we were messaging back and forth. He gave me his number a day later but I felt like I kept sending the first texts in the morning or afternoon. He did send one once but yea. A few days later, I really wanted to meet him so I asked if he wanted to go do something and he was on board! We went to golf and stuff and he paid for the mini golf. The outing only lasted 2 hours since he had to go be with his mom by a certain time but I texted him later that night and he said he had a great time! What I'm wondering about is why he never texts me first and at all anymore!? We haven't talked at all for 2 days so I sent him "hey I just wanted to see how you were doing while I'm on my lunch break since I haven't heard from you in a while."
I was told by some coworkers that he is just thinking of me as an option right now but for a guy that seemed so interested in me and liked talking me, it doesn't seem that way. What do you think?
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I just was dealing with that... I was a bit more enthusiastic talking to a girl on okcupid for a week or so, then not as interested.
In my case, I wasn't as interested, and there was a girl on campus I wanted to ask out, so I stopped chatting. That didn't work, ended up getting asked out by the okcupid girl. I didn't want to meet, but a female friend convinced me I should give the girl a chance. The okcupid girl had been acting all enthusiastic and into me while I was pretty much ignoring her, so I gave it a try.
Of course, it was a flop, because the girl was a party girl used to hooking up. She showed up acting all cold and awkward, I tried to be light and friendly, and ended up being boring, because she was used to the rush of hooking up with guys immediately, bahah. That's life, girls prefer it when you're aloof and ignoring them somewhat. Know for next time.