I'm 28 and getting back into the dating scene, started going on a few dates. Now there are two guys that I really like... only been on one date with each guy. In my opinion it's okay that I go on a couple more dates with each guy to make sure it's a solid connection. That's fair right? Why would I put all my eggs in one basket.
I've never been good at the dating thing so I don't know what is appropriate... I don't plan on stringing anyone along, but I think a month or 2 to 4 dates is a good amount of time to decide...yes?
Please help, signed...Clueless.
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Yes, it's perfectly fair. You're not in a relationship yet, you barely know each other them yet, why would you devote yourself completely to one guy? Maybe he has no intention of devoting himself back, or maybe the other guy would've been a great fit after getting to know him better? I think stringing people along is bad, but you've only been on one date. Enjoy yourself and get to know them better.1