My girlfriend loves me, but there is this other guy she "likes", she flirts with him and texts him alot. She plays truth or dare with him during texts and asks who he likes alot. It makes me feel uncomfortable, but I do not want to dump her. Do I have to confront her about it?
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Hell to the yes. Human beings demonstrate love by their actions, not by their words. If she's flirting with another man, you can bet your caboose she's having thoughts about him that are not healthy for your relationship. How do you think she would react if you were playing text truth or dare with a female acquaintance? Yeah, she'd feel jelly, and rightly so. In a regular-as$ relationship, that kind of sh*t doesn't fly. Consider whether this is a deal breaker for you... because this may not be the first or the last guy she "likes" besides you. Put her on the spot. Tell her what time it is. If it comes to it, move on - she's just not that into you.2