Hey guys and gals, I recently met this guy at this salsa social (you dance salsa with a bunch of people and everyone gets together and socializes). He asked me out to dance twice, the second time he asked what my name was. I told him and we just said it's a pleasure to meet you. From the moment I stepped into the building, he would look at me from time to time. The DJ posted a status on Facebook and he is mutual friends with the guy at the social.
He commented on the status at the same time I commented on the Djs. He added me on fbk right away and I accepted it. A few days went by and I decided to message him. We spoke and we actually have a few things in common but he stopped replying after I had asked him what he does for fun. I hate messaging or texting because I just can't seem to be all bubbly unless it's face to face.
I usually don't message guys or Initiate contact even though I've been doing it more often. I just don't know why he would stop. Maybe he has a girlfriend or I just suck and he found me boring lmao. Anyways what do you guys think ?
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I would imagine that the guy's opinion of you would be formed much more on how he got to know you in person as opposed to the little chats you have online. It's hard to be 'bubbly' while you're sat behind a computer typing words! lol When you chat online, just ask him questions as you have been doing to find out a little more about him, but the test as to whether you two are compatible as a couple will be when you are both together when you can really get to know one another... I hope that helps you! :o)0