Alright, the title may have been an overstatement of sorts, but I'm 20, and have never kissed a girl. I am, however, going on a second date with a girl I really like, who I know has had previous boyfriends, and am kinda worrying that my complete lack of experience will put her off. Is it weird I still haven't kissed a girl, and until recently had never held hands with a girl?
Anyone have any thoughts on this, or what I could do?
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oh man I can imagine how nervous it is..imagining all the things that could go wrong when going in for the kiss. "where do I start? when is it okay to kiss her? " etc...You know regardless of experience, I can personally say girls do get nervous too no matter how many boyfriends they had. Each new guy/girl is starting on a blank canvas again. I say Do what comes natural and don't over think each step. If you ever find yourself whimping out on something you really wanna say or do..just count to 3 and jump right in.
How to kiss?
this is sorta stupid but when I was 16 and never had a boyfriend. This really awesome popular guy liked me who had tons. I was freaking out. What I did to kiss was watch a lot of romance films and also I would kiss my hand...i would make a fist with my thumb tucked inside. Mimicking lips.
I would practice on my fist breathing techniques and when to tilt.
1. Kiss her gently
2. tilt your head to the left side and kiss 3 times
2.5 switch after 3 kisses.
3. tilt you head to the right side and kiss 3 times
**always breath through your nose**
that was what I did to learn how to kiss. When my first kiss finally came it was close to it..but I went with the flow of the other person's lips. That simple. Let it all go!
When to kiss? ahh that is up to you when you feel its right moment. go with your instincts and lay one on her.0