I'm originally from the U.S., but grew up in Paris. My mother's a Tunis native, and most of her family is in Paris. She's Arab Muslim. My father's P.R. We moved back to the States this spring, and I'm in college, but living with them still. My mother, because of her beliefs, is very conservative. Although she's never said it in these words, she wants me to date girls like her. Arab, Muslim, conservative, etc. Well I see a LOT of Black(U.S.) girls here where I am, and many of them are what you'd call "thick?" And a lot of them wear these black yoga pants. Black girls here are CUTE! They look very good like this. There's been several times where I've just tried to be disciplined and ignore looking, but I can't. I've turned around, looked at them go by, and my mouth literally drops, I'm shocked. Black girls here in the U.S. like this...they're just too good, and I want to date 1. I am going to date 1. And I know I'll treat her with the utmost respect that they deserve to be treated with. It's how I was raised. I know my mother wouldn't approve, because it's more socially open here. But the Black girls here are too cute, and I know this is what I want. But how do I go about telling her so she'll understand, help me out with this ladies, please!
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Im a black girl and I work in a lebanese/Mediterranean restaurant. I've definitely been hit on by Muslim guys. They seem pretty much okay. I guess they aren't really religious if they're doing that but their families were! Haha
Also, there are black Muslim girls. Maybe she wants you to be interested in Caucasian Muslim women?
Good luck! I don't think you can make her understand. No one can really tell you what to do. You know her best.1