So, I'm 20 years old and have never been kissed, had sex, gotten intimate etc.
Recently this summer I went on my first hang out/date. The guy held my hand and introduced me to cuddling when we lied in the grass. And for whatever reason, he never texts me anymore.
Well, after out hangout/date, I can't stop thinking about him, or get the fact of how amazing it would be to have someone there for you, the human contact and closeness. It's something I have been craving a lot recently. Not having a bf/dating never bothered me b4, but now It's something I can't get off my mind, I just want it. I'm lonely.
Is this weird? Do any of you males feel this way? What's a way to get dates? I'm pretty shy and obviously inexperienced. Many people tell me I have the looks and brain, that I just need to put myself "out there." How do I go about this?
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None of this is odd. You'd kind of ignored it but it made you realize that it would in fact be nice.
As for your hang out/date, I'm sorry it didn't work out, but that's -also- pretty normal. Most first dates don't lead to relationships, just like most relationships don't lead to marriage. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong.
If you have the looks and the brain, you just need to interact with more single guys in a friendly way.
Do you work? Are you in school? Where do you live? Do you have any hobbies? Do you have many female friends?1