I've known this guy for a year now, and a few days ago we talked about what each of us wants and prefers. I like him and he said he's very attracted to me, he thinks I'm really sexy but he can't commit to a relationship (due to his job and previous bad experiences...). He knows I'm more into relationships rather than just a one night stand. He told me he'd like to have sex with me but I told him I'm not ready for that so he said to me that he will wait until I'm ready!
I didn't ask him why...& now I'm wondering why! He's also older than me, I'm 19 and he's 31.
Why is he waiting for me to be ready? We're not dating, he could easily find someone else...please help!
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He probably alwasy preys on younger girls, knowing they're flattered by the attention of an older guy.. This 'gee, I can't commit because of my job and bad relationships; is an obvious LINE...completely fake. He just wants a fling with an attractive young girl.
He probably can't relate to women his own age, so it wouldn't be so easy as you think for him to find someone else!
Most of all, he hopes he won't have to wait long for you to be ready...1