Basically, during the first date a man should not go for a kiss, keep physical interaction minimal. Still keep things interesting and lively, flirt here and there but don't give her too much.
It demonstrates a lot of positive qualities. You have standards and you want to get to know her before you decide you need her in your life. You're patient and you're life's purpose isn't busting a nut on whatever you see. Most importantly, it gives her time to let her decide how she feels about you.
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There's a difference between simply kissing on a first date and going all over each other and making out. There's nothing wrong with either anyway. If the two aren't letting each other know that they want to be closer it just creates more distance and causes miscommunication as well. As long as you two are on the same page, do what you want. If you don't like going too fast, find someone who is the same way. If you go all the way in 3 dates, find someone who is the same way.
Dating needs to be real, not scripted just because someone's uptight and insists that things be done in some sequential order.0