I went on a date with this guy about a month and a half ago maybe two. After he asked I got home okay and said I was really sweet also "There is a bit of a age gap there though is that something you're okay with." (he's 25 me 20)
I said "Yeah it's grand you don't mind"
He said "ah I mean you seem really mature and all but I'm not sure a relationship would work if it went that far"I said oh right you never know just as long as you get along and are on the same level.
He said "Yeah I guess just don't wanna end up hurting ya cause you seem really nice.
left it as that as I wasn't sure he wanted a relationship. So he texted me out of the blue.
I replied the conversation didn't go too far not leading anywhere.
Him:hey how are u?
Me: hey I'm good you? Who's this?
Him:ah it's (name) we met up before.
Me: aw cool oh I remember now. How's you? Been up to much?
Him:I'm good just busy with college . How are you?
Me:same just college off this week I'm OK. you on reading week !
Him: yeah plenty of reading to do ;)
Me : ha ha yeah loads
Me:you going our for Halloween?
Him: I guess so you?
Me:no idea yet maybe haven't decided yet.
Why did he text me? is he just interested again?
I didn't know where to lead the conversation should I text him in a few days?I probably came off uninterested
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You came off pretty neutral so if you do want something to pick up, you'll have to initiate the next text. I've had a few guys text me out of the blue like that. They're all for different reasons so I obviously can't tell you exactly what he's thinking, but sometimes guys will realize the relationship won't work out at that moment, but keep you in their mind and text you months later when they feel more ready. Other times though, they wait for your feelings to cool so they can get a hookup from you instead. Decide what you want before you text him - but do so! A text is nothing.0
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