I mean..I'm having a rough day, so...that could be why I am asking this question. But it seems like nearly everyone has no manners, no integrity, no shame.
I open doors for people (men, women, children, elderly, EVERYONE). Nobody says thank you anymore.
You stop for pedestrians, when nobody else will. No thank you, no wave of the hand, nothing.
Someone drops something and I pick it up for them OR they expect you to pick it up for them, and no thank you.
And then I answer a question pertaining to online dating, and some guy is totally rude to me on here, turning my answer into some sexist agenda, when I didn't even say anything about women or men at all. I simply said online dating is hard. Like..what the heck is wrong with people?
This isn't the first time either. I've had a few people twist my words around, when there aren't even words to twist. It just makes no sense.
It's just so irritating how rude people are! Have you noticed this? Why do you think this is? What could be a possible solution to this, or is there none?
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Perhaps you can think of this in a positive way. The rarity of treating others with good manners, makes those that do much easier to find. People are often in a trance thinking either about the past of some future issue. Sometimes a complement thrown their way will snap them back to the present and sometimes a really interesting person can be found. Keep an eye out for people who impress you with kindness. They are out there and when you find them and possible make them a friend, you will hopefully start to acquire some good friends. If others are just caught up with their gloomy issues, it's okay to let them go on their way.1