Is there something about a guy that is 'sweet' that is just not attractive to girls? what is it?
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dont confuse being sweet with being a pushover.
girls like nice guys but want a guy who knows what he wants. stand up for yourself & be upfront about what you need/want from a girl. be the man that girls fantasize about. be a winner but don't be afraid to take a loss. if you are right but it ends up with a loss, it doesn't matter, you were still right.
this stereotypical 'nice guy sweet guy' stuff doesn't work & will automatically put you in a category of undatable.
you need to stop caring so much.
fwiw you don't have to offer anything to a girl to date her, as long as you pull off the image/situation of her needing you for her to be whole.1