I must admit that this is the first time I've heard this one before. How's your tone of voice when you argue for what they did? Maybe there's something there that makes them think you're not serious. I'm sure it's highly frustrating and likely hurtful too
For me when guys are completely oblivious that a girl likes them and they definitely make it clear. Also when guys hesitate to ask a girl out. That is annoying!
Sorry, I'm a shy guy. That automatically makes me clueless and also terrified to ask a girl 'that' question. I do try though to be a little more in touch with what girls are feeling and thinking. Many guys don't, and they are blamed for being insensitive.
You might be surprised at how not-clear girls make their intentions. I've never had a girl "clearly" interested in me, I always had to take the risk and move all the moves even in cases where she later told me she'd been interested in me before.
I knew my girlfriend for a whole year before I finally found out from one of her friends that she had been "pursuing" me for the whole year prior to that. I had absolutely no clue - she never spoke more than two words to me each time we saw each other, so I just figured she was shy and didn't talk to people much. I had no idea she liked me at all!
I hate it when guys talk to you when their friends aren't around, then their friends are around and they don't even look at you. Or when they like you and won't tell you, that bugs me a lot.
I take it you don't like shy guys very much then? They're generally the ones that won't tell you they like you for a long time because it takes guts on a whole other level to get those few words out. Agree with you on the friends issue though.
Owch! That's total disrespect, and you shouldn't let a guy get away with it. You deserve far better than that, as does every person. Forgetfulness is one thing, but ditching deliberately is something else entirely. Don't settle for less than the best.
guys with commentment issues. guys play the role for months and send out mixed signgals just like females do, all the time. I wish guys can just be more upfront and honest. If you don't want a relationship then let that be know. And if you do want one just not serious then tell us that also. We know that prince chaarming will never come but thiswould really make it easier in our search.
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I have another thing that guys do that annoy me. When you are arguing with them for something that they did and they take it as a joke and laugh
I must admit that this is the first time I've heard this one before. How's your tone of voice when you argue for what they did? Maybe there's something there that makes them think you're not serious. I'm sure it's highly frustrating and likely hurtful too
For me when guys are completely oblivious that a girl likes them and they definitely make it clear. Also when guys hesitate to ask a girl out. That is annoying!
Sorry, I'm a shy guy. That automatically makes me clueless and also terrified to ask a girl 'that' question. I do try though to be a little more in touch with what girls are feeling and thinking. Many guys don't, and they are blamed for being insensitive.
You might be surprised at how not-clear girls make their intentions. I've never had a girl "clearly" interested in me, I always had to take the risk and move all the moves even in cases where she later told me she'd been interested in me before.
I knew my girlfriend for a whole year before I finally found out from one of her friends that she had been "pursuing" me for the whole year prior to that. I had absolutely no clue - she never spoke more than two words to me each time we saw each other, so I just figured she was shy and didn't talk to people much. I had no idea she liked me at all!
I'd say she was shy. Can't think of anything else that could do that.
I hate it when guys talk to you when their friends aren't around, then their friends are around and they don't even look at you. Or when they like you and won't tell you, that bugs me a lot.
I agree with you on guys and their friends. But I could say girls aren't much better either haha
Girls are so notorious for telling guys they like them.
I take it you don't like shy guys very much then? They're generally the ones that won't tell you they like you for a long time because it takes guts on a whole other level to get those few words out. Agree with you on the friends issue though.
when we make plans, and you ditch us to hang out with your friends
Owch! That's total disrespect, and you shouldn't let a guy get away with it. You deserve far better than that, as does every person. Forgetfulness is one thing, but ditching deliberately is something else entirely. Don't settle for less than the best.
This happened to me so many times I don't even know what to do anymore
guys with commentment issues. guys play the role for months and send out mixed signgals just like females do, all the time. I wish guys can just be more upfront and honest. If you don't want a relationship then let that be know. And if you do want one just not serious then tell us that also. We know that prince chaarming will never come but thiswould really make it easier in our search.
Thanks
Rudeness. Impoliteness.
nothing really annoyes me I'm pretty laid back and fun the only thing that does is being friends with other girls I hate when guys do that
when they lie, cheat, do things that just downright p*ss a girl off. but we love them =))) <3
because they were good in the sack
selfishness...