-Long distance, talked almost every day and hung out a handful of times over a 7 month period. only stopped because it was to hard to maintain. its been 2 years since then.
I didn't think about her the whole summer, but now everythings coming back. We don't even talk anymore. The odd hows it going or happy birthday/holiday greeting.
not sure what to do but its driving me nuts. any help would be appreciated!
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Okay, I think this oneitis that guys like to claim is just a "manly" way to explain a deep feeling you have for a female. Sometimes, this feeling is grand and full of love, and based on a legitimate feeling of feeling that things are right between you. That doesn't mean they can't be right with someone else too. And, sometimes, this feeling is creepy and stalkerish. You actually talked to this girl and developed a connection with her, this sounds more like something probably was right with her. It sucks that your distance didn't give you a chance to explore whether it is right, or not.
I would suggest maybe sparking up some conversations with her. See where they lead, and how you're feeling during this. Then weight how you feel with what you want out of life, and what you need. If you think, after re-getting to know her that she may be interested and you are as well, consider if you can be closer to her. Good luck with this situation. :)0