Suppose a girl enjoys a guy's company, why is it that it's always the guy that has to send the first text/message/call etc., and keep the conversation up?
I get fed up after 3 days of such jazz, and can't be bothered. I find that after maybe a further 3-7 days, the girls realize that something's missing and they start to initiate all of a sudden. By then, I would have lost interest in them and can't be bothered..
Such a shame really.
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It sounds ridiculous, but it all goes back to the beginning of man. Gender is a social construction. It's all actions/ideas that have been engraved into our brains. Certain characteristics overtime become the "acceptable" norm. We have come a long way, but it's going to be even longer for thousands of years of certain behaviors to evolve. Men are supposed to be in charge (not saying it's true, just giving the standard idea), i.e. getting food while the women stay at home. It's all about gender roles. Some women (and I can say I'm like this) feel less feminine if they're in charge. Also, if you look at history, maybe even just 100 years ago (maybe less) it would be scandalous for a woman to initiate anything with a man. It's already changing with this generation of young adults being raised by baby boomers/Generation X. I'm guessing it'll start getting drastically different when Generation Y/Z starts reproducing.
Bottom line: Some women do initiate the conversation, look for them haha. But some women feel it's the man's ROLE to do so, and if doesn't; he's either (in their mind) not into them, or isn't enough of a man. I know it's awful, but if I found out that a guy I was interested wouldn't be the first to to make a move part of my mind would assume he wasn't going to be the type of man that can take charge, protect me, support me. Basically, not enough of a man for me. WHICH IS SO NOT TRUE! But it's how my brain is wired.
Also... women are f***ing crazy.0