Culture-wise, specifically. Do you come from a strict culture where dating is either not ALLOWED, or dating someone OUT of your culture is not accepted.. and therefore you have had to lie to your parents about dating someone overall? If so, how did you do it? How did you spend time with this person? Did it bother your partner?What is your opinion on this?
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Yes because I have to.It happened few years ago.My culture is very strict in interracial dating.My parents expect me to bring back an Indian guy home but I live in East Malaysia where there aren't many Indians.I am surrounded by mostly Malay and Chinese so I tend to date them.There were few times during my dates when my brother and mum asked me who was waiting for me inside the car outside my house and I said he was an Indian guy.I think they kind of knew that I lied though because its very rare to find Indians here.I didn't bother to know if they know I was lying.As far as I did that,now I began to realize that It made me as a bad person.I don't want to do that any more because I feel bad for the guy.He will get offended if he knows that I was lying and hiding him just because of his race.0