my friend is going out with a Chinese girl who never offers to pay the bill, and she says it is because in her native China, men are expected to be generous. Is that really true? Or is he being taken advantage of? He asked me because his girlfriend recently yolks him that she wants to go to Disneyland (200dollar day), but expects him to pay the entire price of 2 tickets.
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i have been in china 10 years and I have even had girls ask me out for my birth day and I still pay for the party of my own birth day. so
for me I happy to pay for a girl I just meet the first time if we are just friends not lovers I will say take it in turns, but if she is my lover eg girlfriend I will pay most the time. and there is nothing stoping you from telling a lie you had no money as they all lie here. but if she ask me to pay for a trip she want to do and I don't want to do, then I would say to her she need to think again as I am not dating her to be her bank boy.0