They make excuses saying they are the victim but aren't they just as responsible. At some point you have to realize that guy is a loser. Is it that easy to brainwash or something?
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Girls are usually too scared to ask a guy out.
And they are terrified of winding up alone.
So when a guy does ask them out, they have to weigh up whether he's a better option than solitude or whether some other better guy is likely to ask her out.
For many girls, fear wins out and they go with a sub-optimal guy because hey, at least he asked.1