Just that. This girl and I have been on 4 dates and I've only hugged her goodbye. There is definitely something there with us - we get along super well and I've met her family and coworkers. We talk super easily and the shortest date we've gone on was 6hrs. I feel that I should be pushing more, but I don't really know how to bring up how I feel. Should I just go the 90% and try to kiss her? When? How? I feel like I need to ask permission before doing that- is that ok? My ex and I never kissed at her request, so I literally have no idea what I'm doing.
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Seriously? Are you like devout Christian, or asian? Both of those are a bit slower on sex, but beside that--HELL NO, do NOT ask permission before kissing her!
It's simple. I remember my first kiss. You just have to do your best to gauge the mood, how she's feeling, and if it feels right, go for it.
If it helps, you can test by leaning in close like you're going to kiss her, but don't. If she leans or turns away, don't try it. If she doesn't move away and keeps looking at you, go ahead and kiss her.0