A lot of people seem to have success meeting someone on dating sites. But I have no idea what to say to the girls, I'm good looking and I really want a girlfriend but I have no idea what to say to them.
What to say to girls on dating sites? Advice please and examples would really help.
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You have to just be relax be cool and be yourself.. don't try to sell yourself up. or lie. Just simply make conversation.
You don't know nothing about her, other than some interests she may have written down on her profile. So this gives you free reign to ask her about herself and what makes her happy. You want to know this women inside and out and finding interests in her that may inspire you. The goal is not a date... the goal is to love this woman for the rest of your life. If it isn't then you are not ready to date .. Now I don't mean to fall in love right away I mean take a deep interest in her and if she doesn't fit then do not force it. that's what I mean about that.
you want to ask questions that have depth not one word answers.
ex: what was your happiest moment as child?
what would you do if you you had a weekend free with endless expenditures and prosecution to do anything you would want?
questions that allows you to answer too... and pay attention to what she says and take it in, and use that info to bring up more conversation..
Women love to be listened to. Only talk about yourself if asked. or if you feel it seems one sided.. If she asks about you then she cares if not move on!
Do not compliment there looks at first ALL the other guys are already doing that and it is a shallow attempt to get their attention and shows no depth to you. She wants to be known from the inside so that's what you talk about ...
Be funny laughter wins the heart, be intelligent and feed her mind and wake up her senses!
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