There was a girl from one of my classes, that I had been talking to for a few weeks, and I felt like I kept missing hints from her that she liked me, so I finally worked up the nerve to ask her out. She said yes, and we met up for coffee. I felt that it went well and she gave me her number.
Here's where I think I went wrong: I texted her number shortly after, thinking that I should do it so that she would have mine, but perhaps I should have waited.
After the weekend, she was not in class yesterday and so I can't help but feel like she was avoiding me. I was tempted to text her, but then figured I should' t seem so desperate, and didn't.
Do you think it was that big of a deal that I texted her so soon? it was only one text. And just in general what are your thoughts/advice on the situation? Thanks
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That's not a big deal at all. Usually when I give guys my number, they text me really soon, and it's not off-putting or anything.
Just relax and give it some time. Unless the text you sent was super creepy, I seriously doubt she's avoiding you. There are a million reasons she might've missed class, you know? So yeah, don't worry. :)0