what the heck? I am 5'7" in shape good looking, dress nice but getting a date is nearly impossible. Seem women pretty much want the taller guy say 5'10 or better especially on the online dating sites. I know confidence is big. Any advice?
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Maybe you should go out and meet a real girl and not search online. I know it's hard having a job and all that, but seriously just try starting a conversation one day with a girl in a book store or go to one of your friend's get togethers (I met my boyfriend one night at a close friend's house) you'll have better luck meeting someone that way anyway. Most women who date online are looking for their dream guy on paper and it's true that they'll probably just skim past you online, but in real life people don't give a crap about your height unless you're under 5'6.
I'm 5'2 and have dated guys down to 5'4 and up to 6'7 before, but ideally if I were looking online I would narrow my choices down to guys between 6'0 and 6'3 because if I were dating online I'd be looking for my perfect match (which is a crazy notion to start with.. nobody's perfect but bleh).
Bottom line is. Get out there. Also have you thought about your Facebook friends? I know it sounds pretty crazy but most people have over 300+ friends that they don't even talk to. Skim through them and find the ones you find attractive and message THEM. They know you one way or another and it'd just make more sense and be easier to start a relationship that way (that's actually how I GOT with my current boyfriend. We met one night in January but I never talked to him again until I messaged him online one bored, lonely night in June) it works man0