I am 23, almost 24. He is 28, almost 29. He his a military brat, and comes from a German culture. I have absoulty no problem, with being close with family. Family is extreamly important to me, so it wouldn't be to my "other half." However, this is my problem.
My boyfriend, no joke, literally, texts his mom non stop while I'm with him. It is annoying. No, I am not jealous. But, like, I have a healthy realtionship with my mom, and don't have to text her every hour of the day. I am not over exaggerating when I say, he is texting her ever hour of every day... any advice?
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I think it's sweet that he has a close relationship with his mum. But...you're meant to be the "main" woman on his mind. If he's still texting back and forth to mummy while you guys are on a date, I'm sorry but he needs to grow up and get his act together. The same applies if he's texting other people while you're having a conversation, it is just common courtesy to pay attention to the person who is speaking to you. You should probably discuss it with him because although you're handling it alright now, how do you know that in other situations/whatever, he's not also going to choose his mother over you? It's a minor issue now but I reckon you should try resolve it as soon as possible before it becomes more problematic in your relationship. Nip in the bud whle you can.1