I met this guy in about August, we hung out/went a date. I thought it went well because he said it went well, and I rather enjoyed myself, too. However, after replying to his text (just a regular "how are you doing" text), he replied back in about 3 days, saying his phone was "shut off." We texted for about 3-4 days straight, then he did it again, but this time he never replied back. It's almost December and he still hasn't. I thought about texting him, but I don't want to bother someone uninterested, plus I don't have his number anymore.
I really don't get why he just disappeared without saying anything. We have so much in common- it was crazy! Plus he was the one that showed interest first. I ran into him on the bus recently and it was like we were strangers. I didn't get how he just up and left, it's not like were bf/gf, all we did was hang out once. We didn't even have sex, and he was very respectful- no handsy or anything.
Why do people leave without a notice? Have you ever done something like this, and why? Don't you think a "hey, I'm not interested," or something like that should at least be said.
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this is something that has to do with him not you. He is not able to come out and tell you he is not interested even though he told you he was. He likes you he's just not that into you he doesn't want to hurt your feelings so he finds it easier to just let you drift away to make it easier on both. don't try to contact him again if you force it you will hurt yourself with a person like this they will pretend and make you think they like you just enough to not hurt you, but this won't work and you will end up hurt and them relieved to of gotten away despite the fact that they can't man up and tell you the truth. keep working on you right now sweetheart the right man will come to you.
aka. magic man2