i hung out with this guy and his friend for the first time in about a year and a half and then he texted me thanking me for hanging out and saying we should hang out again. only a few days later he texted me saying "so when are we hanging out again?" he wants to hang out before I go home for Thanksgiving so we were going to hang out tonight. he suggested a movie but I guess we haven't completely made up our minds about what we're doing. should I text him and ask what the plan is? should I assume, if we don't have concrete plans, that he doesn't actually want to hang out with me? what should I do? I don't want to be pushy but I also don't want to assume I should still meet up with him, in case he changed his mind and doesn't show.
Supposed to be hanging out with this guy tonight but we still don't have plans?
What Guys Said 1
You should call him and ask him what the plan is. Pitch a few suggestions of your own. In all likelihood, whatever plan you have will go out the window completely shortly after meeting up. It's always good to have a basic plan in mind though. So call him, ask for his ideas, make a few suggestions, and then go from there.0
What Girls Said 1
If it were me, I'd shoot a text to see if we were still on, and then ask what the plan is. I may be alone in this in today's world, but if he's left me hanging and doesn't come up with a plan at least day of, I assume he's not all that interested.0
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