Girls have you ever messaged a guy first on a online dating site?

Guy would welcome it or hate?

I read so many articles about it and all of them suggest to never message him first, so I didn't so far. And it works OK, I get loads of messages but there is this one guy who seems really interesting and I wonder if I should start the conversation or not


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I joined the POF dating site several years ago and women contacted me constantly, to the point where I don't think I ever contacted any myself. I felt like a dating machine, even. Maybe at my age there's a paucity of men who continue to draw breath and remain vertical, but I was pleasantly amazed.

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    • so do you recommend for or against it?

    • I say you should go for it. There are plenty of others doing it, and no reason not to.

What Guys Said 3

  • as diamondgallade said- yes most guys WHO ARE NOT ON DATING SITE will find it weird.. the interested ones won't find it weird.. GO for it.

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  • I would say you should. My current girlfriend asked me out over text message and my friends thought it was weird but it was fine with me. I mean girls have the exact same rights just go for it

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    • so most guys thought it was weird?

  • Start the conversation. I like it when girls message me first and I am a guy.

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What Girls Said 4

  • I did all the time. The only thing is depends on the site as to whether you will get any reply's back.

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  • no never done that

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  • No, only once.

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  • yes

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