Guy would welcome it or hate?
I read so many articles about it and all of them suggest to never message him first, so I didn't so far. And it works OK, I get loads of messages but there is this one guy who seems really interesting and I wonder if I should start the conversation or not
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I joined the POF dating site several years ago and women contacted me constantly, to the point where I don't think I ever contacted any myself. I felt like a dating machine, even. Maybe at my age there's a paucity of men who continue to draw breath and remain vertical, but I was pleasantly amazed.0