When I met my now boyfriend he was very guarded, he told me he had a plan to wait 8 years (until his kids went off to college) before he was going to even think about dating seriously or re-marry. Long story short, the plan failed, we fell in love and he admits I messed up his whole plan, but he still doesn't know what he wants or what the future holds for us. We've been dating 4 months and it's great but I worry that his plan will come back into play at some point and I don't want to waste my time because I do eventually want to get married again. Thoughts?
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You have not really been dating this guy long enough to say he's marriage material or not, so realistically, you should at least date for a year before bringing your concerns to him, and if he still has resevations as to what he wants, then you should really look for someone who has the same desires as you,x0