I've never made fun of anyone for their appearance. I don't go for guys on looks alone. And yet, someone told me last night that I am the most shallow woman ever because I called MYSELF ugly. No one else. I didn't insult anyone else except myself.
The only way a person can be shallow is if they only go for looks, or money, or something else. Shallow is when someone judges OTHER PEOPLE for their looks or money or whatever.
I found that to be the most insulting thing ever. The only reason I said I was ugly was because someone asked why I wouldn't go for this hot guy at the bar. I answered: "I am way to ugly for a guy like him, he deserves better. I don't date at all." I haven't been on a date in five years. And then my friends boyfriend called me shallow.
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No not really.
Btw I saw the links you posted in other comments of yourself and you're definitely not ugly. It's not like you have pimples on every square inch of your face or excessive facial hair. From the looks of it you have no manly features. Were all judgmental and have our preferences in people of interest. It's people out there that have it way worse than you,; people who have defects they have to live with forever and then there's you. A woman with nothing wrong her besides the way she perceives her physical appearance. The only reason you're like this is because of your past experiences with guys you obviously found attractive and ended up bad. So now you've convinced yourself unworthy of any man because you couldn't get what you wanted before.
If you truly want to be alone forever then whatever, but if deep down if there's any chance that you really want to date again, then you won't find anyone with your mindset. How could a guy love you for who you are if you don't? It just wouldn't work.0
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