I dated a guy last year but he wasn't interested to be in a relationship once I asked.
We ended things.
Now I have a better boyfriend for me (graduated from Stanford, better looking, taller, etc). I'm happy.
I wonder, do guys regret letting a girl go sometimes?
- Honestly I have especially when the girl got better looking, etcVote A
- Honestly, NO. I've never regret letting a girl go.Vote B
- Honestly I haven't dated much/Never had gf/bfVote C
- See answer/otherVote D
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I've had moments where I wonder if I made the right choice, when it came to the ex girlfriends who weren't utterly terrible. I might wonder if I made the right choice, or whether I should have tried something different, but to be honest, I don't tend to dwell on it much. Ultimately after only a couple moments thought, I conclude it's for the best, that things probably never would have worked out, and that we're broken up for a reason.
You probably shouldn't drive yourself crazy wondering if he regrets it. I mean he's in the past, after all. He's probably moved on, and you claim to have moved on as well. I say "claim to" because really, if your new boyfriend is so much better, smarter, taller, better looking, and you're so happy, and if you've moved on, I don't see why your ex even matters. Wouldn't you agree?
Anyway, yes some guys regret letting someone go, just like I'm sure some girls regret letting a guy go. I just don't think it matters if you're as happy as you say you are.5