basically 10% of the men get dozens of women and the other 90% of guys are left with whatever they are lucky enough to settle for.
sounds really cynical (and I ain't blaming women for this) but it feels true
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My experience has been more in the middle. I was in a long term relationship for about 4 years, and when I got out of it last winter, I have slept with four women. Two of them beautiful, the other two not so much. I had relationships with a beautiful one, and another relationship with a not so beautiful one.
This may have been luck... I dunno.
Maybe I'm fooling myself, but I have no desire to sleep with dozens of women as this apparent 10 percent does.
Having slept with a high amount of women (for my life), in such a short amount of time has made me realize that I really don't want to sleep with a bunch of women.
I just want to find one woman, and not a woman I'm settling for, but a woman that I'm really attracted to both physically and mentally.
I'm also confused with the idea that 10 percent of men get all the women. They may sleep with them, but these men aren't hoarding them, it's not like they take on 20 wives or something. They hook up, then break up, and these women are once again free agents.2