So we broke up many months ago, and haven't talked for two. Her birthday is today, and initially, I wasn't planning on congratulating her, since getting over her has been easier since we don't speak, and we didn't break up on exactly good terms (she left me for another guy).
But, a few days ago, it was my father's death anniversary. He passed away 4 years ago, and my ex texted me that day to support me. So, since I got that text, I've been wondering if I should congratulate her today on her birthday.
What do you think?
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it's complicated, do what you feel like doing. I feel it's polite to to give back her wishes to you on your dad death anniversary. may be she did that because she's feeling guilty about what she did, or may she just wants to normalize your relationship, either way just do what you feel like doing that day. if you do it could buffer any awkwardness between you tow, whatever you do think that you're dealing with another human being, and leave any hatred out of it, so do what your consciousness impose.0