I have a decent sized body frame and it takes a while to bulk up. I was wondering what girls preferred to date. Along with having a great personality, would you rather date a "Big" Buff guy that's big in size or a strong guy with more definition on muscles such as abs and biceps?
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Personally, I find "big" a bit ambiguous still. There's like 'roid monkey big which I find totally unattractive, there's kind of "soft big" which I have quite a few friends that are into - you know, the big cuddly teddy bear kinda guys- and then there's that kind of lumberjack big, i.e. a guy who works physically and so builds up a strong frame because of that. Honestly, I find that third kind super sexy, but my major determinant is whether or not a guy is bigger than me or not, lol. I'm fairly tall for a girl and athletically built so I need a fairly big guy so that he can be strong and make me feel small and feminine (as admittedly homo habilis as that is).0