Okay so my girlfriend goes to this park that's about 40 minutes away from me. She goes there every weekend and most of the time after school. I've asked her many times if I could go with her and just chill with her there. But she always says no, I ask her why and she always says that she doesn't know. I've brought it up many times. Supposedly he hangs with her middle school friends there. She has told me what she does at the park. Chasing little kids, playing ball. That doesn't bother me that the fact she plays with little kids, their 7th graders and she's 9th. But the fact that she doesn't let me go there bothers me. Summers coming up and I asked her about the whole thing, she said we can just go to a different park.
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There's no trust in the relationship - break it off with her... If you refuse to do so, show up and see what she is doing, if she IS with another dude, act more mature than your age and be calm about the situation -- Approach her and break it off without calling her names etc when she isn't around her friends.
Dont scream and yell at her, just be like "i came to the park and saw you with a guy, it looked odd and as such I can't be with someone I can't trust; I hope this didn't ruin your day, but I'm firm on my decision"
Her reaction will vary, but regardless - hold your cool and thank her; then leave and don't communicate (If she was cheating on you or seeing someone else.)
If you explode and scream at her, congratulations you classify as any other 9th grader. Show her your different and don't ^_^ She will want you back and then you can have the liberty to be like "Sorry, I'm not interested in playing games right now"
Good luck and I hope all is well, but truthfully - you should break it off anyways as you don't have trust in her.~
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