i'm cool with having a first date at a cafe, but would a second date, drinks at a bar work?
1. I'm not looking for quick sex
2. I'm not looking for date rape
3. I'm actually into intellectual pursuits and all that
but I just wanted a setting a little more lax, fun and natural. like a day at a cafe can establish a mental connection, but I do want something to inject some of that lust into things.
but without all the sleaze.
if you went to a cafe with a guy and you enjoyed your time with him and have no qualms about him. he invites you to a bar next week at 8pm , would you accept or would you have some doubts.