So I ended up making out with a guy at my place but we're not dating. I guess we kinda know each other. I'm 22...I usually don't do this unless I'm in a relationship... he wants to "hang out" again but I don't want to seem like that type of girl. I'd rather he ask me out and we date if we are going to continue to do this but now is it like he sees me just as something fun to do? I want a relationship, not a friends with benefits situation. What should I do?
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first of all NO it was not a bad thing you did .. it was fun at the moment right? so if you enjoyed yourself then no it was not bad just because your not dateing him . on the other hand he probably is going to be someone who would be hard to start up a real dating relationship with now .. why well cause he prob really liked the make out session and now more is on his mind and now ever time he hangs out with you he will prob want to do the same .. I mean you can give him a chance if you want .. maybe you will get lucky and he be one of the few guys who don't think that way but I doubt it . I don't think he would think less of you now its not that its just that you got him all hot with kisses and now he will probably want more FUN TIME .. I would just be honest with him .. tell him you like him but that you felt kind of bad for making out since your not dateing him tell him your looking for more then that and see what he has to say about it .If he is really into you he will date you like you want and if he was just wanting fun time then he won't .. it was just kissing at least you didn't sleep with him yet .. if so then that would have been diff.. not a bad thing either but he wouldn't have took you serious after that .0