I"m sure there are a hell of a lot girls on this site like me who have had the terrible experience of dating an asshole or two in her life.
Some of us just seem to have that tendency and we end up getting hurt by these guys who mistreat us and make us feel extremely bad.
I am personally trying to deal with this problem of mine right now. So I will listen :)
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Well, we were never a couple. But there was definitely something between us, at least I thought so at the time.
The guy met me a few months after he had broken up with his ex. We got close really fast but he told me quickly that he wasn't ready yet. I said I was fine with it and that I wasn't sure if I had feelings for him anyway. We continued being friends. After about half a year of being his friend, he asked me if there was something between us. He was being very sweet and loving with me, kept me warm when I was cold, lent me his stuff, bought me a few things, hugged me a lot. I said that I thought I had feelings for him. But suddenly he backed off. Went stone cold. Stopped talking to me and hanging out, he kept making all these excuses. After a couple of months of this treatment, I finally got a hold of him and we met up. Asked him what his problem is. He said the age gap between us is too big (6 years) and that he's not over his ex yet, blah blah blah. I said OK, fine, whatever. Then 2 months later I hear from our mutual friend that he's getting hot and heavy with this other girl, who's only a few months older than me. So fuck the excuses he made up really! I'm guessing I was some kind of shitty rebound for him to figure out whether he still "had it" or not. Jerk.2