Hey, so I met this guy at a college party Saturday night. We talked for a good while, and he was the one who came over to chat me up. He seemed so nice and he seemed pretty into me, and he nervously asked for my phone number. However, I came with some other people so eventually I went to go find them. I saw him again later that night and he smiled and said "Hey, what's up", but it looked like he was looking for his friends so they wouldn't end up leaving him, lol. I told him I was going outside so we said bye to each other and that was it. He has texted me earlier because I mentioned that he should text me so I had his number too. I texted him back around noon the next day, saying that it was nice meeting him. That was Sunday, now it's Tuesday, and I still haven't heard form him! I know that one of his frat brothers and I have a somewhat strained/ rocky history right now ( I don't want to go into detail here but if you send me a private message, I can explain). I know that talked that night, so does that have something to do with it? Why would he ask for my number but not even text me several days later? Did he think I was cute, or not? lol
I'm not sure what to do now, and I would really appreciate some input from the guys here!
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Sounds like he is intimidated by you. You did say he nervously asked for your number, so he might be wanting to call, but keeps talking himself out of it. You could try calling or texting him again with a reason to respond. Even if it is just something simple like a text that asks him what he thought of the party, would give him something easy to respond to. At least then you would have an idea of whether he is avoiding you, or doesn't know what to say.
Right now he may just not know how to go from having your number to asking you out. Guys are not taught how to ask women out so a lot of us are surprisingly clueless at times.0